A man’s only as worthy as his beard is soft..

This might be TMI… but I am sick of meeting men on nights out that don’t condition their beard.

I like to go for a dance, that’s not a crime, and neither is spotting a nice looking lad across the floor and plotting to get at least a peck by the end of the night. I’m young, okay! All of my friend do it, or at least did before they met the one. If you can like someone after seeing them stumbling across a sticky bar sloshing around a half downed VK, vomiting on their way to the bathroom, finishing their drink, shrugging and dancing back into the thick of it, you’re going to be right as rain sober. And yes, that did happen to a friend. They’re still together… But she’s put a cap on his frivolities after that vomit happened on her favourite pink shaggy rug. Don’t think about how long that would take to clean up at 2am when you’re tired and grumpy too much, it’s not a wholesome thought.

After witnessing that, and seeing her kiss him with a bit of sick on his shirt, I always find my target at the start of the night and watch them like a hawk. Some say it’s creepy, but I’m just protecting myself. I also like to move quickly, I don’t have entire days to groan hungover and prefer to be in bed by at least midnight. Get in around ten, spot your man, tailor your meeting so he’ll buy me a drink, dance, pash, home. Easy.

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Except I’ve found that recently, too many men think they can grow a beard but clearly don’t invest anything into it. Scratchy! Itchy! Rubs my chin raw! And don’t even get me started on the little scratches that end up inside my nose. How?? But this story does have a direction. A few weeks ago I spotted my man and executed my plan without a single flaw. He was all over me, if I’m honest. Didn’t even skimp on my drink. But he did have one of the most uncomfortable facial hair situations I’ve ever come across. Looked like a god, so whilst I was under the influence it was an easy choice. But the next morning it was a problem.

It wouldn’t have been a problem if I didn’t find him an actually genuinely amazing guy. He made me waffles for breakfast and asked If I wanted to go for a nice walk to his favourite coffee shop. I fell hard, fast. I’m still with him, and I seriously think this is a soulmate situation. Imagine that- from a kiss con at a club!

So I had to make sure he was perfect in every way. The beard either had to go, or had to get soft. He was fussy, almost everything I showed him he turned his nose up at. No, don’t like that scent, no that looks too thick and greasy. Please don’t buy that, I won’t use it. Until, in my desperation to no longer have a bight red patch all around my mouth, I found this premium beard kit. I didn’t get an enthusiastic yes, but I did get a shrug and ‘okay’. Okay! Praise the lord he said okay! I’d bought it before he had time to take another breath.

It was a serious game changer. His beard is SOFT and my god is the smell intoxicating. I’m obsessed. We’re waiting for another, larger order to arrive to completely Percy Nobleman-ise his grooming routine. He actually looks a bit like the comic character (yes, we also bought the comic). If I thought he could be the one before, I’m certain now!

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Deal Breaker: The Moustache

The idea of women being attracted to facial hair is one of those things that everyone has an opinion. Some people believe that facial hair is hottest thing a guy can wear and other people are of the opinion that facial hair is the most horrible thing a guy can do to try and boost his look. There’s also the third faction of people in this argument where facial hair doesn’t really factor in all that much when it comes to a guy’s attractiveness. To clarify that last group don’t necessarily mean having facial hair or not doesn’t matter but their preferences just aren’t dictated by the presence or lack of facial hair. If we’re being honest my opinion is that facial hair should be one of those things that you can make a judgement call on depending on how it looks on the individual in question looks with or without it. There are going to be guys who rock with facial hair and look absolutely horrendous without it and the opposite of course is also true. If you’re sitting there thinking that I’m being way to superficial that’s cool but when it comes to dating I’d probably prefer it if when I look at you I don’t have to fight the urge to look away and hold back a giggle but hey that’s just me.

Here’s something I can with a lot more certainty than just my preferences though and that’s the fact that the moustache by itself is definitely a more acquired taste. Don’t get me wrong it can look good but you have to understand something and that’s the fact that the whole unruly rugged look doesn’t really work as well with just a moustache. Now if you’re really set in sporting that moustache solo I highly HIGHLY recommend you at least style that thing. You can’t just use regular wax either since just like beard hair is different from head so is moustache hair so moustache wax is a must have in this case. And don’t just pick the first moustache wax you can find either because remember that your moustache is placed directly beneath your nose so go for the ones with a mild scent if any at all.

The impact growing facial hair can have on your dating life

We can all probably admit that having a beard can provide a massive ego boost for you as it makes you feel a bit more manly and rugged. If you’re sitting there saying “facial hair doesn’t define your manliness” fair point and good for you. But if you can look at a man with a full well maintained beard and moustache combo and not think “damn I wonder if he wrestles with bears” then you and I aren’t going to be able to see eye to eye.

Guys with beards rejoice for there are studies conducted out there showing that women prefer a man with bit of stubble or a full beard versus clean shaven men. There are also studies that say the exact opposite and claim that women actually prefer clean shaven men. Seems like someone somewhere probably has an agenda but that’s not really all that important. Either way you really shouldn’t rely solely on your facial hair to attract a partner because no matter what school of thought you align with that if you can’t talk to the girl once she’s decided she finds you easy on the eyes.

A good understanding of the dating game is pretty much required if you’ll be wanting to attract women but a more important facet for bearded men to focus on would be the issues you might run into when you are actually already dating someone. The beard can physically hurt, same goes for moustaches, beards can get a little wiry when they longer and even when they barely count as stubble they can prick your special lady friend. That’s just one issue that might come up but a good approach would be to just make sure your beard is in the best shape it could possibly be. Proper beard care can help your beard smell fresh, feel nice and soft (maybe even fluffy), and of course in the event you might want to shave your skin would be smooth and soft as well. If you’re not sure where to start for beard care then you may want to look into beard kits and that’s exactly what it sounds like it’s a kit for beard grooming. There’s no telling what real issues may arise while dating but it helps to be prepared.

There’s a Lot to Share

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Stay connected and wait for more ideas and tips on how to do it!

There ‘s a lot that I want to share with you in time. It’s just up to me now to find the time write it all down!

Cleaning Your Beard With The Right Product

Hello gentlemen!

Did you enjoy reading my previous post about the beard brush? I hope you learned something from it, although I have to admit I didn’t find myself particularly great when it came to writing about that subject.

Previously I have talked about using beard combs and brushes for producing a positive impact on your beard. But in all honesty,  do you think those grooming tools are enough to create that good an impact?

I believe any grooming tool should be used alongside a grooming product that you can also apply simultaneously. A brush or a comb is no good without the help of other products that you can apply to your beard too. This combination really helps you achieve the healthy and manly look that you’re aiming for. ­­­

There are many of them actually, and most of them are essential for your beard care.  I am going to discuss only one of these for now. Before working on the style of your beard, the very first thing you must not forget to do is to clean it, to avoid it from itching. By doing so, you will need to use a specially designed shampoo for your beard.

I know some of you are thinking that maybe you can just wash your beard with a regular shampoo that you use for your hair on your head. Well, my answer is a big “NO” to that assumption. Using regular shampoo for your beard is not advisable as these shampoos are formulated for the hair on your head only. There are different chemicals in the regular shampoo that are good to your scalp and hair on your head, but can actually be quite harmful to your facial hair and skin.

Beard shampoo is designed to clean the hair on your face without drying the skin underneath. This is one particularly nice innovation in cosmetics. Many beard shampoos nowadays are formulated with advanced ingredients that not only help to clean your beard and protect your skin from losing necessary oils, but also nourish your facial skin and hair at the same time, keeping them smooth and soft.

Cleansing is indeed a very important part of any grooming routine. The main thing is you just have to choose the right product for it. When it comes to cosmetics you must be knowledgeable enough to use the right product for any specific area on your body to avoid unwanted results.

 

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Hey guys!

Its been almost a week now and I’d like to offer you my sincerest apology. I know I said I’d be posting here every few days but so far I have let you down! I’ve been working on my next article and making sure I don’t miss anything I intend to write about.

Actually, I really can’t wait for you to see it. I’m pretty sure I’ll be able to finish it in the next week or so. Please take some time in the coming days to check back here for my upcoming posts.

Thank you!

Creating a good impact on everyone’s eyes!

I am a woman writing about a man’s beauty product. Is that weird? Sorry, but I don’t think so! I’m really not that good at this but I just want to express my thoughts and opinion about a specific cosmetic product that I think a man must have.

I know cosmetics are not only for women but also for men. I am pretty sure most of the guys around the globe are already using beauty products as well, but I am not sure if every one of them is using grooming tools along with the product that would make them look great.

Cosmetics really has a great impact on all of us, and the cosmetic business is becoming more progressive and innovative. The industry seems to be really good at creating not only products that everyone can apply to make you look better, but also develop tools that can be used to help you apply your products more easily and effectively.

Now, I wonder if every man reading this article is already using a grooming tool like a beard comb? And what about a beard brush? Well, those two tools are not totally the same, but they are both making a great impact on every man who uses either one of them – whichever one you use basically depends on your needs and preferences. I believe using the right comb or the right brush for your beard definitely helps making you look as awesome as possible!

They say the comb is for detangling the hair, controlling while cutting and trimming, while the latter is used for a dry beard, and helps with softening when applying oil products and styling. Whichever your preference, using at least one of them is always a good place to start. If you prefer the comb, then that’s great, but if you use both, then I think that would be even better!

Try using one of them or both of them and start creating your own impact on your beard!

Apologies for my absence

I just wanted to quickly apologise for the fact that my posting has been non-existent recently.

I’m working hard behind the scenes on a great new post that I think you’ll love. Should add a new dimension to this blog as a whole and I’m really excited to share it with you. Be sure to come back soon so you can take a peak.

First Foray – A Beauty Item Doing Things Differently

Hey folks. As promised I’m going to use this corner of the web as a place for me to trial my ideas for articles.

Up first is an article I’ve written about a new type of beauty item. If you’re not into that then don’t worry, just come back in a few more weeks – I’ll have another post up that might pique your interest a bit more.

If you are into makeup and skincare, then please take a look below and let me know whether you think the article is good enough to be posted at the agency I work for:

Makeup Primer is often an item that woman argue they cannot live without. Despite the fact it wasn’t really a recognised purchasable item a few decades ago, primer has now become one vital component of any woman’s makeup routine.

Used pre-foundation (some people call it foundation’s foundation!) primer literally primes your skin for makeup application. It fills in your pores and adds a gliding gloss to your skin which makes makeup application all the more easier – what a time saver!

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On top of this, it also moisturises and many of them contain antioxidants and hydratants that are all round really good for your skin.

Despite this, there are some out there that aren’t particularly effective. It all depends on your skin type. Some primers are silicon based, but others are water based – these are our favourite.

Water based primers are better for those with dry and sensitive skin, and also have the added benefit of containing no synthetic silicones.

That’s as far as I’ve got up to. What do you think? Do you think there is anything more I could add to this.

Before writing this I did a fair amount of research and asked my wife to try a handful of primers.

After a good few weeks of testing (believe me she was very thorough) she came to the conclusion that this one was her favourite makeup primer. Water based, good price and awesome packaging – what more could you want!

That’s it for now guys. I’ll have another one up soon.